Bibledoorajar Accepts Two Relationships

"Oh that you were as my brother,...."

Song 8:3

     It is unusual at first thought to think that our bride would desire that her husband be as a brother to her. But she is desperately looking for ways to increase her declarations of love to him and for opportunities to learn more from him. She could do in public with a brother whom she would have come to know so freely over the years what she could not do with a king who demands a certain decorum.  She could give a brother a hug in public and take him home whereas people would wonder what the king was doing in her mother's home. Thus, the bride could explore him as a brother in a freer and more full way, sharing wisdom and pomegranate wine with him.

     In grammar school I greatly admired one older brother in particular. He was so caring and observant of his little sister. I longed for my brother to watch out for me and care for me in the same way. I needed someone who would teach me and show me the right way to go.  Then I would know better how to maneuver in school.

      In Hebrews 2 Jesus is depicted as our elder brother. He is more than willing to be our leader. He set Himself apart to God so that we might be helped to do the same. He became human so that he would not be ashamed to be a brother to us. He knows our nature and knows what we need to know pertaining to God. His maturity is a treasure trove for us. Paul said in the book of Colossians that "in Him are hid all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge." So, yes, Jesus, my brother, come along side of me and help me in any way you can. If I am being "stupid" and "making a fool of myself" love me enough to point it out. I do not want to embarrass the King! Such kindly feedback as we sip our wine will be intoxicating. Thanks bro for all You do.